Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Frosty Smiles

Yep, the morning frost has started already in Wichita, but that's not what gives us frosty smiles.


Gracie was excited to trade in her Wendy's frosty coupon (thanks Nana & Nanny) for...


a delicious ice cream treat!!
Now THAT kind of frost makes you smile : )

What other Fall favorites bring a smile to this sweet face?


PUMPKIN Pancakes!!

We have really been enjoying Fall this year.  
Aside from fun Fall-themed treats, Gracie went on her 1st camping trip with Daddy!!


Our church arranged for a Father-Child Campout a few weekends ago.
Dean thought this would be great Daddy-Daughter time as well as...


a perfect chance to try out the new tent (replacement)
that came while we were in Niger.

Gracie enjoyed playing outside, sitting around the campfire roasting marshmallows,


But she was NOT interested in sleeping IN her sleeping bed.
ON her sleeping bag was as close as she got!

Other exciting Fall events:


GMHC (Global Missions Health Conference)

Once again we were blessed to participate in this annual conference.  We enjoyed quality time with dear friends including our annual meal with the Edmunds (thanks again!), reconnecting with folks from Galmi AND hanging out with Darol (Dean's brother who lives in AZ -- missed you Cheryl!!).  Topics of conversation centered on West Africa, cross-cultural ministry, community health ev@ngelism (CHE), sharing Good News with M.s, processing (and praying) through loss.  We were encouraged; we were challenged; we were enriched!

While we travelled to Louisville for this 3 day conference, Gracie stayed in Kansas City with cousin Anabel, Uncle Josh, Aunt Michaele, Nona & Paisley.  She had a BLAST!  Thanks JAM & Nona!!!  We are looking forward to more fun times in KC over Thanksgiving -- and hopefully we will remember to take pictures.

We will leave you with one final picture of G...


in flip flops for Fall!!
(a true Carolina girl at heart)

With Fall smiles,
DD&G



Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Trunk or Treat?

Yep, that's right, TRUNK or Treat!

Thanks to an invite I received from a co-worker, Gracie and I were able to experience this fun Halloween alternative hosted by 
Central Community Church in Wichita.  

And boy did we have fun!

A little Pink Poodle again


Still cute, even if Mommy did forget
to get the pants out of storage!

A brief explanation for those who are unfamiliar with "Trunk or Treat":

Trunk or Treat is a safe Halloween alternative.  Sponsors (in our case church members) gather in a large parking lot where they park their cars, open the "trunk," decorate the vehicle and hand out candy.

Gracie braved the spider's web to get this treat.


A quick trip through the BUS.



And on to G's favorite "TRUNK"

The Wichita Fire Department's bucket truck!


Even got a closer look!


And to complete the evening...

the cool pink poodle eats
a Hot Dog!


We were thankful for this unexpected activity tonight, although we missed having Daddy along.  Also we missed our sweet friends the Carrigan's with whom we have trick-or-treated the last two years!

Who says you have to wait for October 31st to dress up anyway?

G dressing up the Boyz...
Love the Headbands!

Trunk-or-Treat!


Friday, October 26, 2012

It's been a while

Once again, time seemingly slipped away and along with it another month.  There have been thoughts of writing several times but only now do we follow through.

We have been keeping busy:

Sep 28 - Oct 8   Trip to Florida -- We had a GREAT time!

Mickey Mouse!
(Just at the airport -- not actually Disney World)


A 4-day Prefield Education Conference prompted the trip.  This conference introduces parents to the unique challenges they will face raising (and educating) their kids in a cross-cultural setting.  It occurs twice a year, so we thought we'd capitalize on the Orlando conference since Dianna's aunt, uncle and cousins live there!  To add to the fun, Dianna's parents and grandparents drove down from S.C. to spend the week -- and take care of Gracie while we attended our conference.

Enjoying some pool time with Ethan, Hannah & Papa
at Grandma Julie's & Granddaddy Dicke's house!


Pumpkin Patch



We also had to great privilege of spending time with our Chad teammates, the Downings!  They are on furlough and home-basing out of the Orlando area.  AND as if that weren't already enough -- our families took a day trip to Sarasota and visited with the couple who initiated the work in eastern Chad!!

WOW!!


G with 3 of the 4 "D-family" girls

Sunday morning "smiley face" pancakes!
YUM!  Thanks Suz : )

Dean left FL before Dianna & G so that he could spend a boy's weekend with his dad and brothers in Arizona.

Boating and Fishing while enjoying God's splendor


The girls enjoyed a bit more FL sunshine -- and sweet time with family -- before meeting back up with Dean in Wichita.

At the airport with Nana & Papa



Oct 19 - 21  Weekend to Remember

Yep, we had a little couples' getaway last weekend!  The Neefs, a sweet family with 4 little girls still at home, graciously offered to watch G, so that we could have a weekend together (THANK YOU!).  We drove down to Oklahoma City with our dear friends (and housemates) the Cardwells and enjoyed the marriage conference put on by Family Life.



And in between all these trips, we've squeezed in some time to make special treats, too!

G sampling while showing off her lastest "treat."


The hustle and bustle of activity is not the only thing that's delayed our postings.  We continue to process our losses over this last year.  Please pray for us as we ask hard questions.  Pray that we would draw close to our Lord who weeps with us.

When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who came with her weeping, 
He groaned in the spirit and was troubled...Jesus wept.
John 11:33, 35

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Little One



A little one laid to rest today.
A life short-lived on earth,
Eternity to find.

A little one joined another today,
A sibling who'd gone first
Into HIS arms sublime.

Our little one's not forgotten today.
 Although, an early birth
Separates us for a time.



A year ago, we never imagined we would bury a child.
Yet, now, we know this way too well having walked it twice before.

Today, we buried Baby K4 next to Baby K2 on a farm in Kansas.
Baby K3's small frame rests in Galmi, Niger.


Our hearts ache.
Our tears fall.
HIS love sustains,
through it all.


Please join us as we pray for healing --
body, heart and soul.


And, also, please join us as we celebrate
the precious miracle God entrusted to us a little over 2 years ago!

Resting and Trusting in the Giver of life,
DD&G


Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Birthday SURPRISE!

We are very thankful that we could fly to SC last weekend 
to surprise Nana, Dianna's mom, for her 60th birthday!

Surprise!!
Although the trip was short, we found time to make some great memories...

Four Generations

Papa & Nana with their grandbabies

Photo Break...time to build block towers

The Greats -- grandparents & grandkids

Sweet family
Daniel (Di's brother) Kristi & Dylan

And us, too!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, NANA!!



We also spent a day with Nona, Dean's mom.
Gracie loves helping out with the horses!

Washing Pinky
(Gracie & Anabel's horse that Nona is raising for them)

Time for a rinse

Closer look at Jo-Jo in his stall 

Catching a ride

Those of you who follow us on facebook 
-- which is not updated much more than this blog -- 
may remember some of these pics from Labor Day weekend in Kansas City:

Gracie & Anabel feeding ducks at Deanna Rose Children's Farm
in Overland Park, KS

Feeding baby goat with Uncle Jonathan

Up close and personal with the "duckie"
What a blessing to have two of Dean's brothers so close to us!
JAM (Josh, Anabel & Michaele) near Kansas City
Jonathan in Oklahoma City

 
Good thing we like to travel : )

-DD&G-

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

5-6-6-5

-5665-

That's how many miles we've DRIVEN since landing in Atlanta, GA on June 9th!

5,665 miles -- what a trip it's been!

Our apologies for neglecting this blog during our travels.  It's been quite the journey.  But we are happy to report that we're back online, posting from our new home in Wichita, KS.


Why all the driving?  Here are the highlights:

168 miles  
Homecoming drive from Atlanta, GA to Aiken, SC
Celebrated Gracie's 2nd Birthday -- Noah's Ark take 2!

300 miles
Round trip to Folly Beach for fun in the sun with family and friends!

1,125 miles
Aiken, SC to Wichita, KS
Via Christi International Fellowship Graduation -- Congrats!
Moving - phase 1

1,125 miles  
Wichita, KS to Aiken, SC
Time for more reconnecting with our family and friends
Moving - phase 2

1,134 miles
Back and forth across SC spending quality time with those we love

568 miles
SC to OH
G's first visit to a long-horn cattle ranch -- thanks DD!
Celebrating the gift of life with the Millers!

377 miles
OH to Wheaton, IL for a week at TEAM
An amazing time getting to know The Evangelical Alliance Mission, the missions agency who will support our home church in sending us to CHAD.

MUCH more on this SOON!

297 miles
Wheaton, IL to New Hampton, IA for time with former Via Christi co-workers

379 miles
New Hampton, IA to Lansing, KS for a night with JAM!
(JAM = Josh, Anabel & Michaele Kubacz)
Looking forward to many more visits during this next year!

192 miles
Lansing, KS to Wichita, KS
Home again, Home again.  
Moving - Phase 3 - FINALLY complete!


5.665 MILES!


We are settling in to our new routine and our new home.  An SPECIAL thanks to our dear friends, Jared & Melissa, for welcoming us to share their home -- what a BLESSING to us!

Dean started work at Grace Med last week.  Dianna started work at Grace Med yesterday.  And Gracie started "school" at ParkPlace Childcare & Learning Center TODAY!  That may not sound like a slow pace but after our last 8 weeks on the road, it feels like it to us.

This is an exciting new chapter for our family as we prepare to return to Africa -- hopefully by this time next year.  Many of you have heard us talk about how God's at work in Chad while others of you have not.  In the near future we will share MORE with ALL of you!

DD&G

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Good News

Our last blog post was about Gracie’s birthday party and the great time we had with our Galmi family... pretty good news in our book.  But the two prior posts did not have such cheerful stories.  Children, younger than our bright and healthy two-year old, dying in ways that would seem inconceivable at home.  It’s a different world here (read Marc Carrigan’s post from May 31st at thecarriganslife.blogspot.com to learn more about what it’s like to be a mother here in Niger). 

But how about some good news - news about people who lived.  Let’s start with THE Good News, the Best News, really.  The Son of Man (Jesus) did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many (Matthew 20:28).  This verse says so much - Jesus came to serve during His life and then to give His life, to die, as a ransom for many.  This is a good start to the Good News - Jesus taught us how to live by being an example and then He died for us.  But that’s just the start.  By His death and resurrection, He conquered death.   He gives us the chance to die with Him, so that we can truly live with Him (Romans 6:8-9).  

A few brief stories about people who lived...

It was a typical day in the Pediatric Clinic: plenty of sick kids, some not very sick at all, some with bizarre conditions unlike anything I’d seen before.  And many in between.  Dianna and I were working together, treating as many as we could and enjoying having each other for 2nd opinions.  Then Rufai walked over from across the room carrying a motionless bundle.  Inside was 10-day-old Lamsarou.  Rufai was pretty sure that she was dead, but he wanted one of us to confirm it.  With the help of a stethescope we could hear a faint and slow heartbeat - she was barely alive.  We rushed to the resuscitation area of the obstetrical ward on the opposite end of the hospital campus.  We prayed as we ran and as we watched her take an occasional agonal breath.  The tools available are quite basic by American standards - an oxygen concentrator and an bag-valve with a poorly fitting mask.  We could help a little but, as always, it was up to God whether this one would live or die.  We prayed that she would live.  
Slowly she began to come around - her pale and cold hands and feet began to regain color.  Her heartbeat quickened to a rate that was almost normal.  She began breathing more rapidly and with greater vigor.  We continued to pray, thanking God and knowing that it was only by His grace that she would live.


8 days later she left the hospital with her mother, bright-eyed, nursing well, looking as if nothing had ever gone wrong.  We praise God for preserving her life and for the chance to give Jesus the glory as we spoke with her mother and the other women in her room.


Saidou ran into a burning building in an attempt to save the lives of a young brother and sister; he was burned along with them, but not as severely as they were.  (There is a sad part to this story: the young girl died within a few days; her brother lived for about a week and a half).  He was stoic and depressed initially, and understandably so.  But his countenance began to lift during the month or so that he received care.  God spared his life while others around him died. We pray that He will come to know the one true God who has numbered His days.




Nafissa has kwashiorkor, a form of malnutrition that occurs when there is not enough protein in the diet.  Millet, a grain, is the staple food for many Nigeriens and some mothers don’t know that their children need other sources of protein.  With education and access to better foods, Nafissa is healing.  She did have a short stint in the hospital, but has spent most of her time in the malnutrition center, the CREN.  Her grandmother, who recently began caring for her in the CREN, is an inspiration to us and such a role model to other mothers and grandmothers.  We joke with her that she worries about any little change but, in truth, we are so encouraged to see her care so much.


Getting better!


This man was bitten in the face by a viper - he laid down in his home at 10:30 at night and got bitten by a viper!  I asked the nurses with a bit of scepticism if this could even be a true story.  They told me “yes, the snakes come into the house and when someone lays down in the dark they have no idea that a snake is there.  This is one of 3 viper bites in the last few weeks.  It is hard to imagine having to worry about getting bitten by a snake when you lie down in your own house, but...




This picture is as it appears - a young child with a large “dent” in his skull.  Earlier in the day he had been run over by a donkey cart.  If you had seen him from the other side, you wouldn’t have guessed that anything was wrong - he was as playful and cheerful as you would imagine a 2-year-old child to be.  His “dent” was later repaired in the operating room.




An eight-year-old boy being carried into clinic on his mother’s back - never a reassuring sight.  This young man had developed weakness from his neck down beginning several days prior.  There was not clear cause and no clear treatment.  We sent him home with a medication that we hoped MIGHT have a small beneficial effect.  More importantly, we prayed that God would restore him to health.  He returned to clinic 10 days later, able to walk on his own but not completely back to full strength.  We very bluntly told his mother that we could take no credit for his healing.  Again, it was Jesus, the One who created him, who chose to restore Him to health.  That is always the case, but instances like these are vivid reminders of the peripheral role that we play as God heals those whom He choses to heal.



We thank Him for life and for healing.  And we praise Him even when there is death, but we long for the day when “there will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away (Revelation 21:4)